Who can use a strap on dildo?
Strap on dildos are one of the most versatile sex toys you can have in your bedside drawer. There are hollowed out options, perfect if you experience erectile dysfunction or performance anxiety; helping you always have a reliable erection when you need one.
If you own a vulva, strap on dildos can be used solo by hand or by securing to a flat surface. Or, add a trusty harness and penetrate your partner - or have them penetrate you! And speaking of penetration, those in a heterosexual relationship can explore pegging to stimulate the P-Spot - but start small before you whip out one the big boys; in the form of our large dildos.
How to put on a strap on dildo
Planning on having a go yourself? Strap on dildos are wonderfully versatile sex toys, meaning you can use yours in so many different ways!
Whilst a lot of people like to “wear” a strap on, they can also be used by hand - like a regular dildo - or some even come with suction bottoms so you can stick them to a surface and ride away into the sunset. However, if you want to penetrate a partner, here’s how to “put on” a strap on dildo:
- Relax. When having any sort of penetrative play, it’s important that both you and your partner are feeling relaxed and comfortable.
- Attach the dildo. Put the base of the dildo through the ring, giving it a slight tug to ensure it’s in place and secure.
- Put on the harness. When you’re ready, the penetrator needs to put on their harness - a little like putting on a pair of underwear. Adjust the straps as needed, so it feels secure, but not too tight.
- Get going. Have fun! To make sure your partner has a smooth ride, whichever hole it’s going in, be sure to use some lubricant for additional slide and comfort.