How to use a dildo

Dildos have been enjoyed for millennia – with the oldest discovered dildo dating back 28,000 years! – and part of this longevity is due to their incredible versatility. Dildos are often used for solo play, and they can be combined with sex toys like vibrators and anal toys to help you reach heightened levels of pleasure. 

However, you don’t need to keep them all to yourself! Dildos are also perfect for use with partners to enhance everyone’s experience. For example, you can use strap-on dildos or add a strap-on harness for a hands-free experience, or you can even use a double-ended dildo for double penetration or to use with your partner. Dildos can be used vaginally or anally and can be paired with a wide variety of additional toys, so you can experiment to find the kind of experience that feels right for you.

What are dildos made of?

Dildos have come a long way over the thousands of years of their existence, starting with materials like stone, leather and lacquered wood and progressing to body-safe, hygienic materials like silicone, glass and metal in the modern day. Our silicone dildos offer a comfortable, realistic feel and are super easy to wipe clean, which is very important for keeping everything healthy down there – especially if you share sex toys with partners.

In addition to silicone, glass and metal are very popular dildo materials because they’re also very hygienic and easy to clean. Plus, with their heating and cooling properties, metal dildos and glass dildos give you the opportunity to explore temperature play, whether you’re experimenting alone or with a partner.

Are there dildos for men?

Absolutely! Dildos can be enjoyed by people of all genders, body types and sexual orientations. As mentioned above, dildos can be used both vaginally and anally, and they can also be used alone or during sex with a partner or partners. 

When looking for dildos for anal penetration, make sure you look for a flared base to enjoy your dildo safely. You’ll also need water-based lube for easier and safer insertion, as the anus isn’t self-lubricating.

In addition to dildos for men, you can also check out the extensive range of male sex toys here at Harmony, including prostate massagers, fleshlight masturbators, sex dolls and more. No matter what you’re into, there’s something for everyone on our online store. 

How to choose the best dildo for you

If you’re a beginner, we would recommend starting with a smaller, slimline dildo for easier insertion. You can also use water-based lube to help you along.

As you get more comfortable with dildos for solo play or use with partners, you can progress to large dildos, double-ended dildos and strap-on dildos if you’re interested. Silicone dildos are always a popular choice if you’re looking for a more realistic sensation, but feel free to experiment with metal and glass dildos instead if you want to try temperature play. All of these materials are body-safe and easy to clean.