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How to find my G-Spot

How to find my G-Spot

Whether the G-Spot exists or not has long been debated, but the fact is that every woman has one. Knowing where it is and how to stimulate the G-Spot is another matter and it's also important to highlight that not every woman can, or does, orgasm from having it teased. However, if you feel there is something missing from your sex life, perhaps you are yet to discover your G-spot.

For those wanting to try and launch an exploration into G-Spot pleasure, there's no need for a sex therapist or educator, our quick 'how to find my g-spot' guide will navigate you through finding it and offers some suggestions on what to use for a truly thigh-quivering experience.


What is the G-Spot?

The G-Spot, more formally known as the gräfenberg spot, was first discovered in the 1940s and was named after the German gynecologist, Ernst Gräfenberg, which is where the 'G' comes from.

Quite what the G-Spot is depends on what literature you're reading: some describe it as an internal extension of the clitoris, which a 2009 study appears to support. Others describe it as the urethral sponge as it is a spongy area full of erectile tissue (like that found in the penis). This protects the urethra channel during friction, like that caused when engaging in penetrative sex. During, this becomes enlarged and, for some women, feels pleasurable when aroused and then stimulated. The G-Spot is a key part of the erogenous zone that is close to the cervix and can offer highly intense pleasure when stimulated.

Whichever way you look at it, there's no doubt that this area of anatomy exists.

So, where's my G-Spot?

Found on the front wall of the vagina (so, the same side as your belly-button), the spongy G-Spot area is located about 1-2 inches inside. Insert your middle, or middle and index finger up to the second knuckle and then curl them forward slightly, as if making a small come-hither gesture. It doesn't need to be a hard, or forceful action as this may feel uncomfortable. Around this area, you should feel a slightly rougher spot. Every woman is gloriously different, so if you don't feel it at first, try going a little deeper, or move back towards the vaginal opening.

Found on the front wall of the vagina (so, the same side as your belly-button), the spongy G-Spot area is located about 1-2 inches inside the vaginal wall. Insert your middle, or middle and index finger up to the second knuckle and then curl them forward slightly, as if making a small come-hither gesture. It doesn't need to be a hard, or forceful action as this may feel uncomfortable. Around this area, you should feel a slightly rougher spot. Every woman is gloriously different, so if you don't feel it at first, try going a little deeper, or move back towards the vaginal opening. 

Locating your G-Spot can be done using your fingers or a toy. However, G-Spot stimulation can be achieved through many sex positions. Keep it simple with doggy style or try out something with the woman on top like the cowgirl. Either position should allow you to feel great sexual arousal and experience female ejaculation with a partner.

What to use to help find it

When embarking on an exploration to find the G-Spot, we can't recommend getting a good quality lubricant highly enough like a thick water-based ID Glide Water-Based Lubricant, or silicone lube such as System JO Premium Silicone Lubricant will work perfectly well. Having slicked fingers will allow more glide, less friction and make it easier to feel around inside so you can identify the slightly rougher texture of the G-Spot.

System Jo Premium Silicone Based Lubricant

Locating the G-Spot using your own fingers can be tricky as you have to curl your hand in a slightly awkward way. This is why some women prefer to get a partner to help them, or use one of the many G-Spot sex toys that are available.

Sex toys, both vibrating and non-vibrating dildos, that are designed for G-Spot stimulation can generally be identified because they'll have a curve upwards at the tip. The curve might be quite subtle, like the Fun Factory Mr. Boss (£54.99), have a large, smooth head like the Lelo Ella G-Spot (£45), or have a very obvious curve such as the Je Joue G-Kii G-spot (£74.99). Again, it's best to use a lubricant with these, but stick to water-based as they're generally more toy friendly.

Fun Factory Mr Boss G-Spot Vibrator

If you're only just beginning to explore where the G-Spot is (which is probably why you're reading this guide), then opt for a G-Spot toy that has a wider, bulbous head, like the Gigi. The G-Spot is a small area and so using something a little bit bigger means it will make it easier to locate. Before G-Spot massage, make sure you're already aroused through masturbation or foreplay. This can be achieved via clitoral stimulation, oral sex or nipple play, if you're already turned on this little area will swell and fill with blood. The more excited you get the larger it becomes, making it easier to track down. 

Once you feel confident in locating your 'magic button', we recommend you try Rabbit Vibrators. This classic toy will allow you to experience pleasure like no other. These dual pleasure toys allow you to reach a G-Spot orgasm and stimulate your pleasure zone. 

Lelo Ina 2 Rabbit Vibrator

Rabbit Vibrators have a curved tip to target the G-Spot and an added arm. It may appear as a flexible finger like the limited edition Lelo Ina 2 (£97.30) or as Ultra Joy Rabbit (£17.49) demonstrates, like little rabbit ears but all are designed to encourage clitoral orgasms. 

Whether you use fingers or a toy, stimulate the G-Spot by gently rubbing or rocking back and forth over the area. As it's connected to the urethra, some women may experience a sensation like they want to go to the toilet. This is completely normal. It is, after all, interconnected. If it becomes uncomfortable, then of course you should stop as sexual pleasure should be just that: pleasurable.

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