20 Sex Toy Essentials That Every Woman Needs

From magic wands to enchanting eggs and everything in between, we’ve curated a list of the best sex toys for women that we’d consider absolute essentials for reaching the highest of heights in female pleasure.

This Masturbation May, Harmony invites you to take a closer look at the most important relationship you have - your relationship with yourself.

Yes, we’re talking about the tantalising world of self-pleasure or solo play as it’s otherwise known. Regardless of whether you’re having regular eyes-rolling-to-the-back-of-you-head sex with your significant other, there’s nothing to say you shouldn’t be exploring your erogenous zones all by yourself.

In fact, we have it on good authority that not only is masturbation an essential component of having a fulfilled sex life but, according to doctors, touching yourself intimately can have a positive impact on both your mental and physical health. Sounds like it’s time to get shopping then, right?

Every adult toy brings something different to the table. So we hope you have an insatiable appetite. In fact, if sexual pleasure was a cake - you might have one delicious slice of discretion, one sweet slice of sublime clitoral stimulation and a tempting wedge of toe-curling texture with sprinkles on top. Find out what makes up your perfect cake with the help of this article.

Then have and eat it!

With hundreds of sex toys marked down at Harmony Store, there couldn’t be a better time to explore your desires.

20 Best Sex Toys for Women At A Glance
 

1. Best Clitoral Sucker: ROMP Rose Clitoral Stimulator
2. Best Beginners Bullet Vibrator: Svarkom Elva Bullet Vibrator
3. Best Wand Massager: LELO Smart Wand 2 Medium Massager Vibrator
4. Best Shower-Friendly Dildo: Loving Joy Silicone 6 Inch Dildo with Suction Cup Base
5. Best Nipple Play Sex Toy: Fifty Shades of Grey Nothing But Sensation Nipple Teasers
6. Best Dual Stimulation Vibrator: LELO Soraya 2 Dual Rabbit Vibrator
7. Best Anal Beads: Loving Joy 10 Function Vibrating Anal Beads
8. Best Glass Dildo: Icicles Textured Curve Glass Dildo No 18
9. Best Butt plug: Loving Joy Small 3.5 Inch Silicone Anal Plug
10. Best Panty Vibrator: Mina Veil Remote Controlled Panty Vibrator
11. Best Pelvic Training Toy: Double removable Kegel Ball
12. Most Attractive Sex Toy: Lovense Lush 4 App Controlled G-Spot Egg Vibrator
13. Best Hands-Free Vibrator: Bliss G-Spot Vibrator
14. Best Ride-On Sex Toy: Ruby Glow Blush
15. Best Couples Vibrator: We-Vibe Sync 2 App and Remote Control Couples Vibrator
16. Best Lube: ID Glide Water-Based Lubricant 65ml
17. Best Bondage Sex Toy: Harmony Black Leather Wrist Restraints
18. Best Remote Controlled Sex Toy:Mina Astral 10 Function Love Egg
19. Most Flexible Dildo: Ombre Silicone 6 Inch Dildo
20. Best Classic Sex Toy: LELO Gigi 3 Rechargeable G-Spot Vibrator

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1/20  ROMP Rose Clitoral Stimulator

Best Clitoral Sucker

“A rose by any other name…” would never be this sweet. Romp’s Rose is a bestseller for a reason, with patented Pleasure Air Technology that provides contactless waves of stimulation to your clit, wrapped in an irresistibly romantic rose-shaped soft-touch silicone.

2/20  Svakom Elva Bullet Vibrator

Best Beginners Bullet Vibrator

If you’re just dipping your toe in the pool of sex toys, this bullet vibe will help you explore your body and what you like. before you expand your collection. The holy grail of women's adult toys, bullet vibrators are a staple. Ideal for beginners with a perfectly discreet and compact design, this sex toy also offers versatility for experimentation with couples' play, making it a strong contender for the best vibrator on the market.

3/20 LELO Smart Wand 2 Medium Massager Vibrator

Best Wand Massager

You simply can’t go wrong with a classic wand massager. This sleek LELO personal massager brings a new meaning to the term magic wand and will elevate your solo play to new heights. Delivering an incredible eight massage patterns and eight vibration modes at different speeds , the pleasure combinations of this wand vibrator are endless.

4/20  Loving Joy Silicone 6 Inch Dildo with Suction Cup Base

Best Shower-Friendly Dildo

In the market for a versatile dildo? This semi-realistic 6-inch silicone dildo is harness compatible and features a suction cup ideal for hands-free fun. Boasting a waterproof design and a curved shaft, this satisfying dildo is crafted to reach your inner sweet spots even in the shower or bathtub.

5/20  Fifty Shades of Grey Nothing But Sensation Nipple Teasers

Best Nipple Play Sex Toy

If you treat yourself to just one new item off this list, let it be these pleasure-inducing nipple teasers. A stylish and simple addition to any sex toy collection, these tempting suckers heighten your sensitivity and are incredible for anyone who enjoys centring their pleasure around nipple play.

6/20  LELO Soraya 2 Dual Rabbit Vibrator

Best Dual Stimulation Vibrator

Looking to double your pleasure? Look no further than this beautifully crafted bestseller rabbit vibrator. Dripping in luxury, Soraya’s ultra-soft, silky silicone form provides incredible dual stimulation of the clitoris and g-spot thanks to its thick rounded tip and highly flexible, ergonomically designed clitoral vibrator. With an impressive twelve vibration patterns, it really does offer the best of both worlds - what more could a girl ask for?

7/20  Loving Joy 10 Function Vibrating Anal Beads

Best Anal Beads

Perfect for new butthuslasts and budding anal explorers, you'll be positively buzzing with this anal plug!

8/20  Icicles Textured Curve Glass Dildo No 18

Best Glass Dildo

Arguably the sleekest and most seductive of all sex toys, glass dildos combine the best of form and function with their elegant design and textured panels. Lined with beautifully textured nodes and nubs, this double-ended dildo offers pleasure your way with a choice of the smooth tapered tip or bulbous double orbs on the other end for a glorious filling sensation. What’s more, this dildo can be warmed with warm water or cooled down in the fridge making it excellent for temperature play.

9/20 Loving Joy Small 3.5 Inch Silicone Anal Plug

Best Butt Plug

If you’re new to anal sex, Loving Joy’s silicone anal plug is the perfect toy to get you started with exploring your body in new ways.

10/20  Mina Veil Remote Controlled Panty Vibrator

Best Panty Vibrator

A discreet magnetic panty vibrator with 10 powerful patterns and a remote control for hands-free teasing anytime. Smooth, comfortable, and perfect for solo or partnered fun.

11/20  Double Removable Kegel Ball

Best Pelvic Training Toy

Designed for ultimate internal stimulation and pelvic floor toning, these uniquely designed love balls offer a new indulgent avenue of pleasure. Explore the latest sexual wellness trend and experience both enhanced clitoral sensitivity and mind-blowing orgasms thanks to the two removable weighted beads.

12/20  Lovense Lush 4 App Controlled G-Spot Egg Vibrator

Most Attractive Sex Toy

The Lovense Lush 4 is a whisper-quiet, app-controlled wearable vibrator delivering up to 7,000 vibrations per minute with pinpoint G-spot precision. Solo, partnered, or long-distance — this discreet powerhouse goes wherever you do.

13/20  Bliss G-Spot Vibrator

Best Hands-Free Vibrator

Waterproof for bath and shower fun. A rippled shaft and angled tip mean the Bliss Minx G-Spot Vibrator is ideal for satisfying internal pleasure. Made from body-safe silicone and plastic.

14/20  Ruby Glow Blush

Best Ride-On Sex Toy

Fancy yourself as a cowgirl? Hop on for the ride of your life and experience the world’s first dual stimulation, ride-on g-spot vibrator and wand. Effortlessly straddle your beautiful Ruby Glow for external vulva and perineum massage or slide in and ride for penetrative G-spot stimulation, sure to make you blush with excitement. Two powerful independent motors work in tandem to deliver deep rumbling vibrations that send waves of pleasure throughout your body, so saddle up and hold on tight!

15/20  We-Vibe Sync 2 App and Remote Control Couples Vibrator

Best Couples Vibrator

We-Vibe Sync 2 delivers dual stimulation and lets your lover get in on the action too! The soft ergonomic design delivers rumbly sensations to your G-spot and clitoris simultaneously with added remote and app support ready to enhance the experience for more ways to play.

16/20  ID Glide Water-Based Lubricant 65ml 

Best Lube

A list of sex toy essentials wouldn’t be complete without mention of our bestselling, long-lasting and non-sticky lube. ID Glide Lube is a wonderfully versatile lubricant suitable for use during vaginal or anal intercourse, when using sex toys or whilst playing with a lover. This water-based formula is safe for use with all toys including silicone-based products so you can rest assured your precious toy collection will remain in top condition.

17/20  Harmony Black Leather Wrist Restraints

Best Bondage Sex Toy

If a mischievous bit of BDSM play is more your bag, Harmony's own brand leather wrist restraints will be your new go-to. Made from durable black leather, the wrist restraints are fully adjustable using buckle straps and can be worn by men or women during kinky bondage sessions.

18/20  Mina Astral 10 Function Love Egg

Best Remote Controlled Sex Toy

A compact, waterproof love egg with 10 powerful functions and a long‑range remote for hands‑free control. Silky soft silicone, USB rechargeable, and ideal for discreet solo or partnered fun.

19/20 Ombre Silicone 6 Inch Dildo

Most Flexible Dildo

The So Divine Ombre Dildo combines style and pleasure with its smooth, body-safe silicone and stunning gradient design. Featuring a tapered tip and flared base, it’s perfect for beginners, solo play, or strap-on fun.

20/20  Lelo Gigi 3 Rechargeable G-Spot Vibrator

Best Classic Sex Toy

Experience incredible pleasure and effortlessly indulgent sensations with Gigi 3, LELO's best-selling rechargeable g-spot massager. Recently this popular intimate item has been remodelled and improved for an even greater intensity of pleasure. Now boasting stronger motors and a 100% waterproof design you can take your pleasure to wetter locations and let your worries wash away.

Put simply, if you’re not experimenting with solo play and elevating your masturbation game with sex toys, you’re seriously missing out. Whether it’s as part of your self-care and wellness routine, you’re in a long-distance relationship, or you’re seeking something to spice up your foreplay, sex toys are an incredible way to unlock your wildest fantasies and desires.

Shop Harmony’s collection of the best sex toys for women now.