20 Sex Toy Essentials That Every Woman Needs

20 Sex Toy Essentials That Every Woman Needs

From magic wands to enchanting eggs and everything in between, we’ve curated a list of the best sex toys for women that we’d consider absolute essentials for reaching the highest of heights in female pleasure.


This Masturbation May, Harmony invites you to take a closer look at the most important relationship you have - your relationship with yourself.

Yes, we’re talking about the tantalising world of self-pleasure or solo play as it’s otherwise known. Regardless of whether you’re having regular eyes-rolling-to-the-back-of-you-head sex with your significant other, there’s nothing to say you shouldn’t be exploring your erogenous zones all by yourself.

In fact, we have it on good authority that not only is masturbation an essential component of having a fulfilled sex life but, according to doctors, touching yourself intimately can have a positive impact on both your mental and physical health. Sounds like it’s time to get shopping then, right?

Every adult toy brings something different to the table. So we hope you have an insatiable appetite. In fact, if sexual pleasure was a cake - you might have one delicious slice of discretion, one sweet slice of sublime clitoral stimulation and a tempting wedge of toe-curling texture with sprinkles on top. Find out what makes up your perfect cake with the help of this article.

Then have and eat it!

With hundreds of sex toys marked down at Harmony Store, there couldn’t be a better time to explore your desires.


20 Best Sex Toys for Women At A Glance

  1. Best Clitoral Sucker: Rosebud Clitoral Suction Stimulator
  2. Best Beginners Bullet Vibrator: Svarkom Elva Bullet Vibrator
  3. Best Wand Massager: LELO Smart Wand Medium Massager Vibrator
  4. Best Shower-Friendly Dildo: Loving Joy Silicone 6 Inch Dildo with Suction Cup Base
  5. Best Nipple Play Sex Toy: Fifty Shades of Grey Nothing But Sensation Nipple Teasers
  6. Best Dual Stimulation Vibrator: LELO Soraya 2 Dual Rabbit Vibrator
  7. Best Anal Beads: Satisfyer Love Beads
  8. Best Glass Dildo: Icicles Textured Curve Glass Dildo No 18
  9. Best Butt plug: Rocks Off Raspberry Ass Berries Butt Plug
  10. Best Panty Vibrator: Loving Joy Flirt 7 Function Remote Controlled Panty Vibrator
  11. Best Pelvic Training Toy: Double removable Kegel Ball
  12. Most Attractive Sex Toy: Rose Gold Remote Controlled Vibrating Egg
  13. Best Hands-Free Vibrator: Fun Factory Stronic Petite Mini Pulsator Vibrator
  14. Best Ride-On Sex Toy: Ruby Glow Blush
  15. Best Couples Vibrator: We-Vibe Chorus App and Remote Control Couple's Vibrator
  16. Best Lube: ID Glide Water-Based Lubricant 65ml
  17. Best Bondage Sex Toy: Harmony Black Leather Wrist Restraints
  18. Best Remote Controlled Sex Toy: Love to Love Wonderlove Remote Controlled Clitoral and G-Spot Stimulator
  19. Most Flexible Dildo: Fun Factory Limba Flex Medium Bendable Dildo
  20. Best Classic Sex Toy: LELO Gigi 2 Rechargeable G-Spot Vibrator

1/20  Rosebud Clitoral Suction Stimulator

Best Clitoral Sucker

Treat your clitoris to some TLC and experience the powerful vibrations of this petite and discrete clitoral stimulation Rosebud. Ten thigh trembling vibration patterns are packed into this perfectly portable stimulator designed to mimic oral sex and its palm-sized form makes it a master of discretion, ideal for travelling with.


2/20  Svakom Elva Bullet Vibrator

Best Beginners Bullet Vibrator

If you’re just dipping your toe in the pool of sex toys this bullet vibe will help you explore your body and what you like. before you expand your collection. The holy grail of women's adult toys, bullet vibrators are a staple. Ideal for beginners with a perfectly discreet and compact design this sex toy also offers versatility for experimentation with couple's play making it a strong contender for the best vibrator on the market.


3/20 LELO Smart Wand Medium Massager Vibrator

Best Wand Massager

You simply can’t go wrong with a classic wand massager. This sleek LELO personal massager brings a new meaning to the term magic wand and will elevate your solo play to new heights. Delivering an incredible eight massage patterns and eight vibration modes at different speeds , the pleasure combinations of this wand vibrator are endless.

4/20  Loving Joy Silicone 6 Inch Dildo with Suction Cup Base

Best Shower-Friendly Dildo

In the market for a versatile dildo? This semi-realistic 6-inch silicone dildo is harness compatible and features a suction cup ideal for hands-free fun. Boasting a waterproof design and a curved shaft, this satisfying dildo is crafted to reach your inner sweet spots even in the shower or bathtub.

5/20  Fifty Shades of Grey Nothing But Sensation Nipple Teasers

Best Nipple Play Sex Toy

If you treat yourself to just one new item off this list, let it be these pleasure-inducing nipple teasers. A stylish and simple addition to any sex toy collection, these tempting suckers heighten your sensitivity and are incredible for anyone who enjoys centring their pleasure around nipple play.

6/20  LELO Soraya 2 Dual Rabbit Vibrator

Best Dual Stimulation Vibrator

Looking to double your pleasure? Look no further than this beautifully crafted bestseller rabbit vibrator. Dripping in luxury, Soraya’s ultra-soft, silky silicone form provides incredible dual stimulation of the clitoris and g-spot thanks to its thick rounded tip and highly flexible, ergonomically designed clitoral vibrator. With an impressive twelve vibration patterns, it really does offer the best of both worlds - what more could a girl ask for?


7/20  Satisfyer Love Beads

Best Anal Beads

Searching for a gentle way to ease yourself into anal play? This set of Satisfyer anal beads is crafted of the highest standard, body-safe silicone and is perfect for anyone curious about the delights of backdoor stimulation. Ideal for beginners, these anal beads feature a soft and graduated design in either spherical or diamond form making them perfect for anal training. Extremely flexible and with an ergonomic design to adapt to the contours of your body for comfortable insertion, simply slather in water-based lube and indulge in this new avenue of ecstasy.

8/20  Icicles Textured Curve Glass Dildo No 18

Best Glass Dildo

Arguably the sleekest and most seductive of all sex toys, glass dildos combine the best of form and function with their elegant design and textured panels. Lined with beautifully textured nodes and nubs, this double-ended dildo offers pleasure your way with a choice of the smooth tapered tip or bulbous double orbs on the other end for a glorious filling sensation. What’s more, this dildo can be warmed with warm water or cooled down in the fridge making it excellent for temperature play.

9/20 Rocks Off Raspberry Ass Berries Butt Plug

Best Butt Plug

This waterproof ultra soft butt plug is a sweet juicy treat for your cheeks. Featuring a removable bullet vibrator this butt plug is essentially a two in one toy offering seven succulent pleasure settings for your behind.

10/20  Loving Joy Flirt 7 Function Remote Controlled Panty Vibrator

Best Panty Vibrator

Take your intimate play outside the bedroom with this wearable remote control panty vibrator. Delivering powerful vibrations to your most intimate erogenous zones, this sensual massager brings pleasure in a compact and wearable form that’s perfect for kinky hands-free stimulation with the included remote control. Relinquish control to your significant other and succumb to the indulgent stimulation of its whisper-quiet vibrations.

11/20  Double Removable Kegel Ball

Best Pelvic Training Toy

Designed for ultimate internal stimulation and pelvic floor toning, these uniquely designed love balls offer a new indulgent avenue of pleasure. Explore the latest sexual wellness trend and experience both enhanced clitoral sensitivity and mind-blowing orgasms thanks to the two removable weighted beads.

12/20  Rose Gold Remote Controlled Vibrating Egg

Most Attractive Sex Toy

Tantalise yourself or your partner to climax with this premium vibrating love egg. This elegant glossy massager features a smooth and sophisticated design in a gorgeous signature metallic rose gold colourway. Featuring ten powerful vibration settings at variable intensity levels and whisper-quiet operation, this adult toy is perfect for self-pleasure as well as couples play, with wireless remote control operation for all sorts of naughty surprises!

13/20  Fun Factory Stronic Petite Mini Pulsator Vibrator

Best Hands-Free Vibrator

It's our pleasure to introduce you to this delightful luxury self thrusting pulsator vibrator. Designed with a hands-free experience in mind, its wavy rippled shape means it holds in place allowing you to busy your hands elsewhere as you succumb to the toe-curling internal stimulation. With five speeds and three vibration patterns, firm yet supple velvet-textured silicone pushes back and forth, delivering a sensationally slow build-up of intensity. USB rechargeable and perfectly sized for first-timers at just four insertable inches, this toy is the embodiment of ease and pleasure, demonstrating that good things come in all sized packages - especially petite!

14/20  Ruby Glow Blush

Best Ride-On Sex Toy

Fancy yourself as a cowgirl? Hop on for the ride of your life and experience the world’s first dual stimulation, ride-on g-spot vibrator and wand. Effortlessly straddle your beautiful Ruby Glow for external vulva and perineum massage or slide in and ride for penetrative g-spot stimulation sure to make you blush with excitement. Two powerful independent motors work in tandem to deliver deep rumbling vibrations that send waves of pleasure throughout your body, so saddle up and hold on tight!

15/20  We-Vibe Chorus App and Remote Control Couple's Vibrator

Best Couples Vibrator

Whether you and your partner are miles apart or you’re joined at the hip the We-Vibe Chorus can help foster feelings of intimacy, bringing the two of you closer together. This couples vibrator is the perfect way to spice things up in the bedroom or bathtub as it is 100% waterproof! Discover incredible clitoral and g-spot stimulation and explore all ten different vibration modes for an unrivalled experience with your lover. Shaped out of super-soft silicone and curved to fit perfectly against the contours of your body, its intuitive squeeze remote allows you to adjust the vibration modes and intensity, speeding up the harder you squeeze.


16/20  ID Glide Water-Based Lubricant 65ml 

Best Lube

A list of sex toy essentials wouldn’t be complete without mention of our bestselling, long-lasting and non-sticky lube. ID Glide Lube is a wonderfully versatile lubricant suitable for use during vaginal or anal intercourse, when using sex toys or whilst playing with a lover. This water-based formula is safe for use with all toys including silicone-based products so you can rest assured your precious toy collection will remain in top condition.

17/20  Harmony Black Leather Wrist Restraints

Best Bondage Sex Toy

If a mischievous bit of BDSM play is more your bag, Harmony's own brand leather wrist restraints will be your new go-to. Made from durable black leather, the wrist restraints are fully adjustable using buckle straps and can be worn by men or women during kinky bondage sessions.

18/20  Love to Love Wonderlove Remote Controlled Clitoral and G-Spot Stimulator

Best Remote Controlled Sex Toy

Designed to fit perfectly against the curvature of your body, this love egg stays in place with your every move, offering incredible internal massage of your erogenous spots and external stimulation of your clitoris. Erotix Award Winner 2019, the Wonderlove vibrating egg comes with a remote control allowing independent control of the two motors. Take the reins and simply press the button to make your partner gasp and writhe with pleasure. With its whisper-quiet function, this toy is ideal for couples experimentation anywhere, anytime!

19/20 Fun Factory Limba Flex Medium Bendable Dildo

Most Flexible Dildo

Praised for its versatility, Limba Flex is the dildo for all. We have unique bodies, with just as unique pleasure points, and the Limba Flex adjusts to fit them all, whether they're tucked away, deep inside or just notoriously hard to reach. With its ability to bend and hold a variety of shapes and angles, this sex toy takes the guesswork out of what toy to use for each kind of stimulation. Simply bend it for an extreme g-spot or p-spot curve and bend it back when you want a straight shaft. Its slender shaft and tapered tip also make it a perfect anal toy for beginners without pushing your limits too soon.

20/20  LELO Gigi 2 Rechargeable G-Spot Vibrator

Best Classic Sex Toy

Experience incredible pleasure and effortlessly indulgent sensations with Gigi 2, LELO's best-selling rechargeable g-spot massager. Recently this popular intimate item has been remodelled and improved for an even greater intensity of pleasure. Now boasting stronger motors and a 100% waterproof design you can take your pleasure to wetter locations and let your worries wash away.


Put simply, if you’re not experimenting with solo play and elevating your masturbation game with sex toys, you’re seriously missing out. Whether it’s as part of your self-care and wellness routine, you’re in a long-distance relationship or you’re seeking something to spice up your foreplay, sex toys are an incredible way to unlock your wildest fantasies and desires.


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